What do you say to the most annoying fostering ... - Adoption Forums

I usually say, "Yes, it's very difficult to say goodbye, but we grieve and get through it." Then I usually add something about how we take a break between placements to regroup. If I'm in a bad mood/unfiltered, I say, "We're grown-ups; we can process our emotions."

Because to me, it's sort of like saying, "I could never have a friend--I'd get too attached. I should never have had parents--I got so attached." Have these people never loved anyone and had to say goodbye to them? And if they did, did they get through it?

I find this comment annoying because it also implies that I don't get as attached as they would, because my heart is so hard.

Source: http://forums.adoption.com/foster-parent-support/407356-what-do-you-say-most-annoying-fostering-comment-ever.html

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